I’m sorry for the situation you’re in Shannon Yeh . I know it hurts. And it might be particularly difficult to leave when you’re stuck in the hot and cold dynamic — one day you’re his everything, while the following day he gives you the silent treatment, for example.
However, you find the courage to walk away when you have enough. When you see that you are stuck in a toxic dynamic and know the relationship is hurting you instead of making you happy. A relationship is supposed to bring out the best in you, not to hurt you.
Lots of love.
S M